How to be Un-Single --
8 Tips for Singles on Finding a Partner for Dating and Romance
1. Make Over. Consider a make over. Ever watch the show "What Not to Wear?" It's almost unbelievable how effective a change in hair style, wardrope, makeup and so on can be. Consider hiring a make over coach to help you look your best. Sometimes we can't make these kinds of changes ourselves without help. It can be money well spent. .
2. Dating Coach. A make-over coach, as described above focuses mainly on appearance. A Dating Coach, however, takes into account many things and can help you with personality and psychologic issues. I suggest you check out Jeannine Kaiser, Amerca's Dating Coach, at http://www.yourdatingIQ.com. She offers a free news letter as well as advice online.
3. Get out of the House. You're not likely to meet anyone if you just stay home and watch TV. The exercise will do you good and you will feel better. I once met a nice lady walking around the block. She met me by stepping outside her house to change the lawn-sprinkler. But I'm talking here, about doing more than that. Make a point of going out at least 2 or 3 times a week for fun.
4. Do Things You Love. Get out of the house and do more of things you love to do. Then when you meet someone they will be more likely to love what you love. Don't expect to find someone right away. Just do what you love and enjoy doing it. Keep an open mind. If what you love is dominated by your own sex, you may want to explore other activites and expand your interests.
5. Circulate and Keep and Open Mind. If you go somewhere with a friend, split up for a while. Don't hang out the entire night with your friend. For example, if you go to a ballroom dance, and you have an opposite sex friend that you usually dance with, split up for a while and mingle -- walk around and chat with different people. Keep an open mind for opportunities. don't just stay with your friend all night assuming that you won't meet anyone..
6. Get invited to a singles dance party and mixer. These parties are attended by other singles who are also looking for dating partners.Most of them are quite friendly and eager to make new friends. Check out the Professionals Guild Dance Parties and Mixers for Singles in the San Francisco Bay Area and Sacramento Area.
7. Take a class. Take a class, especially one that involves a chance for interaction with the opposite sex. Dance classes are especially good for this. Couples that enjoy dancing together have a good chance to connecting on a really deep level because of the power of music and movement.